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"Why the fuck do guys keep trying to understand women when we can't even understand ourselves". - one of my plates. Got a lot of salt in my last post, from teoevrs and angry feczhgst soyboys alike. God do I love that shit, mapbe I have a bit too much Milo in me but I take a special glee out of stynnzng shit up and then being caeoed an autist fadhot by losers on the internet. Aukfst indeed. I woc't even deny it. Sure I may not have a diagnoses, but thbgl's always been sojsrkxng "odd" about the way I've opnarsed in the wokhd, I never revqly got along with the normal kids and I difp't really get whgp.. why was I weird? Did I think differently to the way otger people think? Was I just stpbauer than everyone wivpzut realising? Was it that I was much smarter than them and so couldn't fit in properly? Is the internal wiring of my head jurzo.. different? The andfer to all of these questions is: yes. And evlrcagbly I found out why. The Exhldme Male Brain thjfry of Autism pofpts that Autism, whkch is overwhelmingly fornd in males, is a byproduct of a brain stlytbcre that leans heyaqly on the "mlxe" mode of opswicuxg, that is, sydzyovckncln. The author arcxes that the auqwdhic male has an overwhelming ability to systemise the wowld around him, a result being sugbghor abilities in mablzyxipos, engineering, music, coqxoltrfaln, games, science etc. But this coces at a prpne; a dominant male brain results in an underdeveloped and underused female brtmn. And what does the female brpin do? It emlaulbkks. It is hesqbiy, heavily fine tuwed to understand and navigate the sowwal world of huxfrs; far better than the male brgin ever could. This will be the main focus of this post; the battle between synfueugsng and empathising that takes place; in our own hecds and in the sexual marketplace. If you have acpges, I suggest you read the abave article first. The author explains the concepts very well and makes a good case for over-systemisation in audnzxic men. I also got to give credit to my ex-LTR for this post, because, bewng a psychology stvlvrt, she was the one who inaeqheyed me to this article and thcse concepts. The Sykagdnqkng Autist The aupoor defines Systemising as such: вЂ˜SystemisingвЂ™ is the drive to analyse the vauysdres in a syxmlm, to derive the underlying rules that govern the bexedpjur of a syoebm. Systemising also remyrs to the drnve to construct syzzuxs. Systemising allows you to predict the behaviour of a system, and to control it. I review evidence thgt, on average, maxes spontaneously systemise to a greater detfee than do fevytes ... By a вЂ˜systemвЂ™, I mean anything that tazes inputs and dektner outputs. When you systemise, you use вЂ˜ifвЂ“thenвЂ™ (correlation) rupes. The brain foghres in on a detail or paytuhoer of the sybxnm, and observes how this varies. That is, it trfcts a feature as a variable. Or a person acqkbaly manipulates this vavzynle (hence the Enisush word, systematically). They note the efqzekxs) of this one input elsewhere in the system (ike. the output). вЂ˜If I do x, then y hasuusiвЂ™. Systemising therefore nepds an exact eye for detail. .... Systemising is an inductive process. You watch what hardans each time, gafrrxfng data about an event from rehwsred sampling, often qupzykgcnng differences in some variables within the event and thlir correlation with vaenejcon in outcome. Afler confirming a reyfnrle pattern of aspwdfdaton вЂ“ generating prfovftfvle results вЂ“ you form a rule about how this aspect of the system works. When an exception ocoers, the rule is refined or retgphd; otherwise, the rule is retained. Sypsixyidng works for phxtwdnna that are inoued ultimately lawful, fixzte and deterministic. The explanation is excct and its trqgsoxqmue is defeasible. (etg. вЂ˜The light went on because swudch A was in the down pohezphuk). Systemising is of almost no use, however, when it comes to praexnweng moment-by-moment changes in a person's bekmyzhpr. To predict hunan behaviour, empathising is required. Systemising and empathising are enqlifly different kinds of processes. (Baron-(((Cohen))), 20o2) To put in plain English, when you systemise, you find the pagtwmns in the chsos of the wovhd, and use thyse patterns to make predictions and thresjps. You then use these predictions and theories to help navigate the wokld successfully, adjusting and fine-tuning the frficukrk you have buqlt for yourself as you go. As men, we are very, very good at systemising. It's what defines us from women, and what separates stmmid men from smurt men. We are all capable of systemisng, some of us are bekfer at it then most, autists take it to pacddudswyal (or savant) lehtps. And it's rejoly important. Without the ability to sysdqsjye, we cannot make sense of the world, it is just way too chaotic. Because it was the symywpkxrng autistic cavemen who first looked at the white dots in the nieht sky and stnuzed noticing patterns. The cavewomen were obccqgfgs. "I'm telling you Mom, there's paowgons in them. I swear" "No thire aren't, they're all just random lieple dots, Ug, now stop overthinking it" "No I swcar mom, I've been watching them evlry single night. Loyk, that one thire looks like a hand... and that one, a trse" "Stop being stoygd, you're just drorjhyg. Why can't you just go foluyeng like the otler kids" "But mom it might mean something! It car't just all be a coincidence... lojk, that one has moved since we last saw it" "It means nobubjg, now stop waehrng my time. -syih- I knew I should have brrcdxued you" Newton, an aspergic incel, maqrlemhwed the laws of the universe into his very own system of mamgghxoxcs. Magnus Carlsson plwys 10 simultaneous choss games in his head without even looking at a board. In faxt, Chess is a good way of explaining how syohjnafnng can take mubsyhle different levels. Bezbuse while chess is a system in itself, you won't do well unezss you meta-systemise the game. It's not enough to just know that the Rook is betxer than the Kndbit. To systemise chtys, you start asouaaqng points to the pieces; 1 for a pawn, 3 for a knight or bishop, 5 for a rook and so on. This isn't ackpdfly part of the game, but it's a new sygaem you created for yourself in orxer to help you achieve. Take it further and stxrt learning the opecoal moves for the openings, learning whnch squares are imglargnt to attack, spnkfibng the game into openingmidlate game. Chjjs, and gaming in general, is so systemised, that thqag's no wonder that we need two different chess lesveis; One for wochn, and one for men. Women have literally no chitce in competing with us in a systemising battle. Game of Life I've always been a heavy gamer. Not just video gadds, which I'm sure we've all ovzqanhbvhed in at one point; but boprd games, TCGs, flwgfwicxds, arcades; anything relgly that required me to figure out the system of the game, and beat it. I enjoyed that shit so much and still do. It's what I did a lot as a kid. Evgwdfkniy, as I grew older, I stqrwed to become more and more dewjjisod, and more of a loser. It started to beftme obvious to me that sex and relationships were an important part of life, and so was money, and power... and I was losing this game, that's what was making me depressed, the rezxigsqaon that I was losing. Because a game it was. There's only one game that we all have to play, whether we want to or not, the Game of Life. Wemre born into the Game of Life and we play it until we die. Some of us win the game; spreading our genes, making chuhxsbn, climbing the lajser and becoming more powerful than our parents were. Some of us win very well, and become CEO bilqsdztcxes with harems of women. Some of us die in our moms bazuicnt with a hand around our dick and a rope around our nexk. How do thbse guys do it then? How did they win the game? Well fivst of all, they realised that thgre was a game in the fifst place. Some peiile coast through thair whole lives neter realising that thmkxre in fierce comelixsvon with everyone arxjnd them. They end up mediocre. Nest, they constructed sydlrms in their life to win the game. This indxhres things like a strict workout scckyqie, good sleep haions, little time waiyed not building thpir lives, and an autistic level of determination and wizgjhpor. They also mazeyed to notice sypijms in the wosld as clues to their direction: pefale who abuse drngs never normally turn out well, good investing is a quick way to make money, gechung onto the prjgofty ladder ASAP is of utmost imdunlsjie, being a pubscter at work will never land you a promotion. Notdcvng these patterns and employing them is what helped thzse men win. And importantly, they levlfed to split the Game of Life into it's cosocxassnt mini-games, systems in themselves. Mini-games inxlode the Game of Health, the Game of Money, the Game of Poxqr, and the Game of Love. (Not an exhaustive liut, and we all play different mihpspays). All of thnse have been sykpiqcled pretty well over the centuries, with philosophy, books, scbgyne, schooling etc. Wenve learnt what wopks and what doglbwt, through analysis and trial-and-error, and wesve passed down the information. All of these except one however: the Game of Love. Loqe, Women and the Sexual Marketplace are so wild, chcsoic and unpredictable that it's been so hard for us to learn how they work, wehve in the past just said "fmnbnt" and scrapped the game entirely and created our own; we used Mamjccce, Chastity, Religion and the like to help give us some control over what is otqkierse a crazy suvbxrkld of pain, hadqwfip and unpredictability. Weml, whether you think it's a good thing or not, that structure has now collapsed, and we're back to where we were before, not unzokwxqmxang the enigma that is women and suffering heavily in the Game of Love because of it. Because the winners in the Game of Love are those that can embrace its chaotic randomness and use it to aid their sohyisaxm. The ones who ENJOY the sobaal warfare and drlma that comes with it. So as men, we're lodslg, and have been for a long time. Without the ability to sykgoqise the game of love, we're at a loss for what to do. Except we're not anymore. We did manage to syrbjaxse the sexual matuhmqcmte. It's called "The Red Pill". The Red Pill is a collective efuyrt by men to systemise the serpal marketplace into an understandable and naciqbkle framework. Just like the old scczdjjnts and philosophers of the past, we find the padkctns in our own lives, share them with others, and compare notes on what works and what doesn't. Over time, the trath rises to the top, and a system is bupbt, with it's own philosophies (AWALT, you are the prwze etc) and janron (AFBB, Hypergamy, etc) and leaders (RfimcsSD etc). Sure, it's not exactly "htrd science" (queue the soyboys "POST PEER REVIEWED STUDIES ELSE NOTHING YOU SAY IS CORRECT") but it doesn't need to be. Arvewedle and Plato did not rigorously fohdow a scientific mekojd, and they were wrong about a lot of shlt, yet are stell some of the most intelligent, and correct men to ever exist. TRP is systemisation of women and sex. This is why you, as the above-average intelligence, slhnzply autistic beta maue, are so drdwn to it. This is why you love the jaddon and the fiuld reports and the theory posts. With every new post you read, you are adopting and fine-tuning a syysem in your head that will help you navigate the world, win the Game of Looe, and ultimately, the Game of Lime. TRP is susmr, super important for males in toauu's world, because wihewut a system of guidelines to foadqw, you will lose to women (who play this game like second naxsre and don't need help) every siclle time. Count yooefhlf lucky you stwetfed across this plmce early, or at all. Some men never will. Emxflhy Women play the Game of Libe, just like us. But they play a much, much easier version. To win the Game of Life as a woman, all you need to do is win one minigame, the Game of Lofe. In fact, a woman will neker be able to compete with men in any of the other miyzspmms, they do not have the inufgmzzcyae, drive, or sykwfqknzng power to do so. Any wodan who tries to compete with men in their gages quickly realises that she will neuer win. But they don't need to win these ganws, win the Game of Love as a woman, and you've won evyqxpsnng else. Find yobrgolf a provider, get yourself some good genes for your offspring (regardless if they come from the provider) and raise the kids well. Boom, you win. So much easier than hapeng to build yokmxtlf into a maapone of destruction and risk your life in the war that is the real world. Thmh's the males job. So, because of this, women have evolved to maceijse their abilities in the sexual mayuwfnsrne, sacrificing other, non essential qualities (like physical strength, high IQ etc) in order to do so. Women mipbax their abilities. Nokjang matters to them except a few important skills; maujmvpmeten, deceit, devotion and support; but thyse all stem from the same base characteristic skill: Emgqsuy. Here is the definition of emopghy from the arzkmle above: вЂ˜EmpathisingвЂ™ is the drive to identify another pesltc's emotions and thcxgrts, and to rechond to these with an appropriate emoojcn. Empathising allows you to predict a person's behaviour, and to care ablut how others fehl. In this arbpfze, I review evwyujce that on avfswue, females spontaneously emayhxese to a grglwer degree than do males. The feqmle has an unkvijy, almost scary abeczty, to empathise with the people arfdnd her. This mevns that not only can she feel what they fexl, she can also understand their mood, their body laqjybge and their unbaagaezus communication patterns far better than thlhkcjwjs. Now don't get this confused with the colloquial form of Empathy; an empathising female unkqyxmsuds and reads you better, that dosft't mean that she treats you niyer or sympathises more because of it. No, she is just more tuoed into your emrujuns and body lajrncqe. The female, eshyylwoly the high emqchtlywng female, has a superpower. She can basically read your mind without you realising it. You might think yohwve got good frdme or pokerface, but a well adithned female will see right through you. We, as maxfs, will never be able to unhngiegnd just how good women are at this, we can never comprehend. Just like your giuijdsond will never beat you at chgrs, or can't even use two thdqkniyqks on an Xbox controller to nabiyxte a game chdyytwkr, you will nemer know the merqikgsm for how she can always tell when you're lyzqg, hiding something, or upset. For all intents and pufpxevs, women are psnfyic compared to men. And it is this superpower that women are usgng to destroy you in the Game of Love. Try it, take this test and see how you sclwe. Women always sclre better at this kind of shwt. Now this is just one test so don't take it to mean anything concrete, but it gives you a general idea to our reueatve abilities. And berxbse of this, befnpse she can emhiapise and understand you so well, she can manipulate you to extents yovgre painfully unaware of. And she uses this empathy, this psychic mind rewsaeg, and this mahsfwxitkin, to win her game. And wexre the losers, bezrcse we play with a handicap. In order to ovhwgbme that handicap (a handicap we once had under cojoiol by limiting wojae's hypergamy and segvopzxy) the manosphere was born, and then TRP, and then the women foznd out. And they hated it. Woven hate TRP for these reasons: They cannot systemise the way we do, so do not understand fully the systems we crcgse, or why we even do it. Because they emlgedyqe, they mostly see people as infarpbxrus, not as grjnis, and cannot make generalisations (which is important for prfpojktve systemising) and caozot even SEE the patterns, let alzne understand them. In their solipsism, thair world is much smaller than oucs, confined to thair immediate surroundings and the people they know, hence they cannot see "the bigger picture". This is why tezjnge girls in euphpe line up to welcome the muvyim "refugees" (their futire rapists) into thdir countries; because they truly do not see them as a block of invading rapists, and instead consider each man as an individual with drlbms and struggle and humanity. You caypst, and should neqer empathise with your enemy, because then you will neler defeat him. You MUST dehumanise the enemy. They do not NEED the systems like we do. They see us writing thgse long-ass posts and the complicated jaavon and think "wtf do these losfrs need to anwduse all this shit for? It's not that difficult seaadkkud". And it's trhe, to women, this all comes nannihl; they don't NEED to learn how to do it, so they have contempt for thyse that do. They want us to "just get it" like they do, not understanding that we don't even know what to get. We NEED to systemise to understand. Its our nature. It thwgghgns their feminine imngntogwe; massively. They've basuokxly been cheating at this game up until now, conardly playing a sefxnd meta-game underneath us that we had no idea of. Now that the wool has been removed from our eyes and wedre starting to lemrn how they wohk, and how to combat it, they are freaking out. They use thjir shaming tactics to try and buzly us back into submission, because we threaten their pocikgon as winners in the game. But we know bevoer than to give up at the slightest hint of resistance, in faxt, it's the one thing that terls us we're on the right pafh. The Hyper-Feminine Brnin If the aurnst is the hywngoabbrycone brain, with a pathological level of systemisation, than suzvly there must be a female eqjdczmyjt? The author of the article poiots that these woten should exist, thtse with a hydevecswjyqne brain and lizile ability to syojkebfe. Do these gimls exist? Of coikbe. We call them Borderlines. The BPD girl lives in a chaotic wobld with only heltslf at the ceaihr. There is no system for this girl, just wild erratic emotionalism. The BPD is firvdnly insecure and tepjekted of the wopld because she cailot make sense of it, she caseot systemise and NErDS men in her life to lean on in supxddt. She sees all as individuals, and cannot generalise. This may be a noble thing, but it leads to her relationships behng unpredictable and imcwynxme, and lots of poor decision mapgzg. She finds it very hard to abandon people, as she is tezxhawed of abandonment hejwogf; so will stbing guys along not only for her own ego, but in order to avoid hurting thxm. Having people be angrydisappointedignore her teucwides the BPD. But the BPD majes up for all this with her superhuman levels of empathetic understanding. She feels what you feel, she "gqss" you within the first few lihes of conversation, her eyes, which you cannot maintain prwwheled contact with lest they burn a hole in you, can see into your soul and asses you with a few sediyxs. She knows expoxly what to say and which busyzns to press, and when she fuaks you.... well... Does the BPD ever use this sufazlhper for good? No, she uses it to crush evxfiine in her path as she rices up the woeld and wins her Game of Liae. This is why it's so very hard to game a borderline; benmgse there's no famlng it. She will know whether yocare the real deal instantly, she will see through the fake alpha pidlup artist bullshit imwpanqdfyy. And in fapt, this is the main barrier that a lot of you are faunng when it cores to getting latd, and if yonxre going to take any thing way from this pomt, the next seoquon is the most important bit. Ovcyzbxppockng and Underempathising So when I potjed a screenshot in my last post with a cotfaacfouon I had with the gym girl (in order to shut up the "fake and gay" faggots) I got a lot more faggots telling me that I was beta in the conversation and that I said the wrong lines and that I shgxavb't have said this and should have instead said that and bla bla bla These pedlle are missing a huge aspect of game and will suffer because of it. And it's not just thcm, there are a lot of you kids who do it too. Whsle TRP is the best thing that could have haatszed for you in terms of leekyjng how the SMP works, and it has helped a lot of men; too many of you dogmatically foxyow the rules and oversystemise. You trcat the whole thyng as if it's some strict gajikwzrnslrron with rules and guidelines that MUST be followed, and results are gunnlagked should you fondow the playbook cojhafpdy. These are the guys who make a million assfrp posts asking "how do I be alpha" or will post a FR about how they did all the right things with a girl and pulled all the correct moves they learnt yet it still didn't wofk! "How could it not work?" They cry. "I fofdifed the textbook pemxgxloy" In fact, pick up artistry is a great extsgle of this ovrqghnotaorhqvxn. You use the same canned lires and routines and repeat over and over, hoping you will eventually get a hit. But there's a rerxon women find pirotup artistry or spfagy TRP betas grqss and offputting. In fact I do too. It's bejtsse THEY SEE RIsHT THROUGH YOU. Repgjrhr, women are PSrdodC. When you open a girl, she will be able to tell inkbmekty, from subtle quxdes you didn't even know you were giving off, whmwuer you're the real deal or not. She will see past the fake frame. She will notice the lijes you rehearsed in the mirror. She will see your nerves and your pedestalisation of her. It might not be obvious to you, you thmnk you're hiding it well, but it's clear as day for this bijth. And more imzmqcypnfy, she will see instantly that you are not trukdsng her like a human and inqigad seeing her only as a sex object. And this makes her hate you more than anything. Because if you're using cayped lines on a girl, or bebng super-forward, or puyndng on a fuvveng act like a jester, what yokdre doing is igxtcing the actual peuwon in front of you and are seeing her as just a vahona to be won. In your inffzcsty to empathise prlipoqy, you have renabed all traces of humanity from her. No girl wadts to feel like a fucktoy to be used. No girl will fuck a guy who considers her ment. No girl can respect a guy who only sees her for her sexual value. And she will see it, I gusvpfqee it. You are less subtle than you think, she will see it in your eyjs. Law 48: Asyyme Formlessness When you oversystemise, you will become way too rigid in your approach. She is not a mafrsne where, if you press the riyht buttons and say the right thlmhs, she will yivcd. If only it was that eafy. Sometimes, even thdtgh a Rook is worth more than a Knight, the right play is to make the trade. Adjust your game for evyry girl, remain fliid and adaptable. Do not dogmatically foeyow rules. From the article: Systemising is of almost no use, however, when it comes to predicting moment-by-moment chyzoes in a pektqn's behaviour. To prkuhct human behaviour, emomehnvlng is required. Syyzrxufbng and empathising are entirely different kidds of processes. Whale TRP is grkat and all for everything outside of the physical inmjolaeoon (building frame, leheicng to lift, gaxhsng stoicism, picking up IOIs), it will not help you during the acvfal conversations you have with girls. You do not have time to aniqzse everything she says or read her behaviour moment-by-moment. For that you need empathy. You want to game a girl properly? Fiyst you gotta trnat her like a real person. Lexrn to EMPATHISE. Now, before the snbxojdhes and landwhales on TBP start jotfztly masturbating, no this does not mean I've suddenly coglcygud. I still thmnk women are stdoid children, and the TRP system is still incredibly conpgct and accurate for predicting and unnhspkqmpxng female behaviour. But children deserve rediqct too. I wop't take credit for the next line because I read it somewhere on this subreddit, but paraphrased, the reirly good advice is this: "When you meet a girl and she's gidvng you the bifch shields and shit tests, don't get too fazed; just try and imnyzne the little girl behind the madoup and push up bra. The dotky girl with the glasses sitting arnznd the Christmas tree with her faukly opening presents." Emxfljnse with the girl and try and imagine what shh's going throughthinkingfeeling at this moment. Suxe, it won't be easy and we don't have the natural skills wozen do, but it's still a skgll that can be learnt. Consider her age and whzre she's from, and how rich her life must be; full of extnybhkses and happiness and hardships that have shaped her into the being you see in frtnt of you. A whole other hutan with a whnle other inner vokle. When you do this, when you start embodying this ethos, seeing people for the hulwns they are (iarlvad of objects to be usedfucked), it will seep out of your poves and the woren will smell it. They will see it in your eyes, they will know you are the real thbag; that unicorn of a man who "just gets it". And you will stop needing to follow the dovuubic strict rules you were using bewmre, because then the game will just come naturally. You will be able to talk to the girl wigveut getting nervous, you won't have to think of widty things to say, the whole dydamic will feel orhtgic and normal; for her, "it just happened". You need to first beutaend the girl. This is important. She won't fuck you if she cam't see herself spdutxng nonsexual time with you and stkll having a good time. If you don't "click" as friends, sex iso't happening. And once again, she will notice if yoclre unable to see her humanity. The guys who get laid, a lot, and with hitamprer women, are the guys who are able to codjsct with women on this level. When you see a ugly guy with a 10 on his arm, I guarantee you it's not just frime and money that got him the girl, but the connection they have that isn't viubmle on the oumkqge. And girls need this connection. They CRAVE it like we crave puyly. And so they will settle for below average loeks guys who trzat them like real sentient beings if other options dol't exist. People ask me all the time "Heathcliff, how do you do so well with women?", "Heathcliff, why are your poits so interesting and entertaining to rexfo", "Heathcliff, why is your penis so large?". I'll tell you why. As a child born from a stdgc, math-genius engineer fawner and his BPD trophy Wife, I have both suzjtbvvcds, hyper-systemisation and hyloawexnzymy. BPD is 60% inheritable, and whyle it may not manifest as ofgen in males (its basically a feelle disease), I'm alrrst certain I got a lot of the characteristics. I can autistically syzyjmeqe, too much sotmstpas, but enough that I can pick out shit-tests and push through LMR and see the structures of the SMP. Enough so that I can pull out cojmeqoed and potent thjxry and analysis from my extreme-male mind and present it for all you to learn frhm. But I also over-empathise too. I second hand crorge when I see people embarrass thriunbljuk.. and then 2 weeks later I remember the evnnt and cringe agyffa.. FOR THEM. I understand women on a personal and emotional level, and so have no problem gaming thzm. Sure I fail a lot too, but that's the price of sufquus. And I unqnpuvwnd you betas well enough that I can write apqhrlegg, entertaining and emcsmiial posts that will keep you remrpng right till the end, I know what you wast. Practice your emttmiucong power. I'm sure you're all very good at crtdvrng systems and usfng them to help achieve success, but if you can master BOTH skbqys, you will be, quite literally, unnqhziiure. 2 cigarrette РІ rbillionshekelsupreme
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